Over the past four decades, Green Mountain at Fox Run has helped thousands of women end weight loss struggles with eating, exercise and body image, make long-term healthy lifestyle changes and lose weight permanently. This weight loss blog helps women navigate these changes.

Binge Eating On Friday Night: At Least I Am Not Alone

By on 05/16/2011

In discussions with women who come to Vermont’s Green Mountain at Fox Run, I frequently hear stories about the out-of-control urge binge eaters sometimes have to prepare for binges as the end of the week approaches. The excitement, the planning, the shopping around for just the right foods.  And then wishing they weren’t dealing with  food addiction. A frequently-heard comment: “At least I am not at home alone for the evening; I have my food.”

This is what I hear:

I am burnt out by Friday

I don’t want to talk to another human being

I want relief from the stress

I am looking for escape

In our discussions, we talk about why and how the binge eating works for many of us. As we binge, our brain releases dopamine  and we then feel soothed—at least while eating.  What can follow is a sense of despair and  feeling disgusted.  This process disconnects our heads from our bodes and we no longer have to feel the emptiness or stress or loneliness in the moment. Although a cycle can ensue.

What to do about this habituated pattern around which a binge eater organizes her week?

We start with the process of problem solving. Just taking guesses and starting to look within and most importantly what would help you not feel so alone.  Someone might realize during that process, for example, that at this time in her life she feels so burnt out from giving her energy to others and leaving almost none for herself.

The strategy she might choose to focus on is to front load stress management in her week, deciding to start  filling herself up in small ways throughout the week so that the depletion was not so extreme on Friday.  The tools she might choose could be:

  • Get a massage
  • Email a friend she had made at Fitwoman so she could get support using the plate model
  • Go out for a 10 minute walk each work day at lunch

What is one small step you can take to fill up?

Social Eating: Staying in Your Comfort Zone

By on 04/03/2014

Jacki Monaco is a Green Mountain alum who blogs about successfully overcoming binge eating disorder. Her story was featured recently on CNN.com. Eating with Friends: Fitting In Without “Filling Up” I’ve written about social eating in previous blogs in a variety of ways…events, holidays, buffets, etc. But you can’t just stick a fork in this topic and call it done. […] Read more »

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How to Stop the Binge Eating & Emotional Overeating Cycle: Before, During and After the Storm

By on 03/19/2012

After Hurricane Irene struck Vermont last August, I blogged about the number of similarities I noticed between binge eating and how we feel before, during and after a storm. In talking to many of the women at Green Mountain, I can say that the comparison of a storm to the binge eating and emotional overeating or compulsive eating cycle continues […] Read more »

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Binge Eating to Numb Out

By on 01/23/2012

Binge eating is a frequently discussed  topic with Green Mountain alums. One woman was telling me about her desire to just numb out at the end of the day.  She was looking to the binge to help her cope with feelings, but she didn’t have a clue about what the feelings were. I call the  process  of looking for the […] Read more »

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