Meghan Trainor’s #1 Hit “All About That Bass” – Body Positivity or Misogyny?

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A Body Image Breakthrough?

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Meghan Trainor on The Today Show

Meghan Trainor sings she’s ‘bringing booty back’ in her new hit song “All About That Bass.”  Some say it’s a fun, catchy tune that boldly promotes body acceptance – or body celebration – even if you aren’t a “size two.”  Other say that it reinforces a superficial and misogynistic view of women.

The positive message of this controversial song may be in doubt – but with over 18 million views on YouTube (and climbing) and roughly half a million in sales in less than two months since making her debut, it’s obvious that the 20-year-old pop phenom has struck a powerful chord with young girls. “Bass” has rocketed it to Billboard’s Number One on Digital Songs, while displacing such pros as Jessie J, Ariana Grande, Nicki Minaj and Iggy Azalea.

Critiquing The Message and the Messenger

With society’s pressure on women and girls to look a certain way, “Bass” appears to be – at first blush – one young woman’s rebellious anthem that has quickly cultivated an enthusiastic following. According to Trainor, the song is meant as a declarative statement that sexy doesn’t come in one size, and women of all shapes have a right to feel good about their bodies.  

When writing the song, I was thinking about girls today…and the message of the song is to love your body no matter what,” said Meghan.

Some critics, however, say “Bass” perpetuates misogynistic stereotypes and opens itself up to ridicule. One blogger, Jenny Trout, questions why this song is being touted as positive message for women in the first place, and points out male bands who have covered the song “up the ante on the misogyny and body shaming” in their versions:


Former X-Factor competitors Emblem3 have covered “All About That Bass.” See how you feel about lines like, “Us guys like a little more booty to hold at night,” and “It’s pretty clear she ain’t no size two/but she can shake it shake it/the way she’s supposed to do,” when you’re listening to young men sing them…Are we supposed to applaud this? It’s positive to hear young men trash “skinny bitches,” just so some women can feel better about not fulfilling a standard of beauty they’re longing for?  ~ Trout Nation

Good point, but is Trainor to blame for not being progressive enough or in the ‘right’ way? Does “Bass” deserve to be ridiculed because male bands have chosen to do so?

“Skinny Bitches”

Perhaps this song is just a sad reflection of our society. The reality is that teen girls are preoccupied with wanting to be attractive and sexy to boys, and if their bodies aren’t a socially acceptable size, they can face horrendous weight stigma and bullying that leaves them vulnerable to eating disorders and long-term psychological damage.

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It may be that society is more deserving than “skinny bitches” of Trainor’s thinly veiled anger (and heaven forbid that a woman express anger – or anger directed at other women), but I wonder if it’s not better for women who feel disenfranchised to express some anger rather than turning it on themselves with all-too-common, self-destructive eating behaviors.

Trainor relates how some young girls who have been bullied say they’ve found solace and hope in her lyrics:


“I tear up and I call my mom like, ‘Did you see that? Did you read that one?’ because some girls are like, ‘I’ve hated myself. I hated life. I didn’t want to go to school. I get bullied. And then I heard your song and I cried,'” said Meghan. “They say they cried because they’re happy and they dance around the room. And I was just like, ‘What?’ It’s crazy.”

Yes, it is crazy. Our society has a mental illness when it comes to women and weight. Isn’t it crazy that a song that champions the sexiness of average-to-large body sizes is seen as a breakthrough?

Society Sorely Lacking In Positive Body Images

The “skinny bitches” lyric is getting a lot of attention, but Trainor also points out how society isn’t doing enough to change how it portrays women in the media:

I see the magazines working that Photoshop
We know that shit ain’t real
Come on now, make it stop  

As consumers, we have a lot of power we aren’t exercising. How long would it take for women’s magazines to change their imagery if we started a boycott? By buying – and buying into – the thin-crazed media message, women are their own worst enemies. Talk about reinforcing misogynistic stereotypes!

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While a song that focuses on how women with “all the right junk in all the right places” are just as sexy to men as a “stick thin Barbie Doll” is inherently limited in it’s progressiveness, some say that it still holds a positive message:

I know you think you’re fat,
But I’m here to tell you that,
Every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top!

Would “Bass” have risen to number one on the charts with a different beat or melody? Perhaps not. Are there other songs by female artist that do a better job of promoting body acceptance without playing into stereotypes?  I’m sure there are, but that doesn’t explain why this particular song has gone viral.

“Bass” Apparently Fills A Body Positivity Void

Ultimately, the song’s popularity with fans – who are calling themselves “Megatrons” – demonstrates how desperate teen girls are to feel good about their bodies. Meghan herself laments how she could have used a song like hers when she faced peer pressure and body image issues in school:


“I wish there was a song like this when I was 13,” said Meghan, admitting that she’s not always confident. “It’s all mostly in my head. I would sit there in class like, ‘I know they are judging me right now. I know they’re picking on me.’ So it helped me a lot, watching this video and seeing the comments that were positive.”

Whether you think the song is deserving of being dubbed a “body acceptance breakthrough” is up to you. For me, the positive aspect of “Bass” is that it has generated global discourse on body image, body acceptance and weight stigma. People are talking about these issues from all sides and perspectives. And clearly, as a society, we need to have that discussion.

You Decide: Watch the “All About That Bass” Music Video

Read the full All About That Base lyrics here.

Is “All About That Bass” is a positive or negative message for women? Why do you think it’s so popular?


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27 Responses (Add Yours)

  • When I was a freshman in high school NoDoubt released “Just a Girl”. It has no reference to body type other than “typical prototype”, if you can even call that a reference. But, it made a huge impact on me in regards to being proud of being a girl and not letting anyone define me by standards of women in “second place” to men. I think there is a need for songs, art, writing, etc that expresses positive female images whether they refer to body types or other standards, but in all of that it should never put down another woman. What is wrong with the “stick thin Barbie Doll” if that’s how a girl naturally occurs to be? Let’s be accepting of women and people of all shapes and sizes for who they are as a person.

  • Laura Brooks says:

    That is definitely one of the major criticisms of this song: the pitting of women against women for men’s attention. I suspect that this song is so popular because it expresses the resentment and competition towards ‘thin’ women that young women may feel, but – ultimately – putting down other women for their ‘thin’ body size is no better than being marginalized for having a larger body size.

  • Tori says:

    I honestly do not like this song simply because, I am a size 4 and now I’m being horribly bullied because I’m not all about the bass! I get constant remarks saying that I have no curves and no man will want me, and people singing that song as I walk past. It hurts! I just wish she didn’t put the bit with “na I’m just playing, I know you all think you’re fat” because I do not think I’m fat, I’m skinny, it’s as much as a body shape as being curvy is! It’s okay for people to call me anorexic but not okay for me to call them fat! I wouldn’t call them fat, just saying, but being called skinny hurts just as much as being called fat! Don’t you think I want something to put into a bikini? I don’t like being so skinny, just as much as an overweight person does not like being overweight! This song has really impacted me negatively ):

    • Max says:

      Skinny girls are getting a lot of hate from all this “Curves are better and skinny sucks” hype. It’s all so stupid, it’s stupid because they feel like the victims when they’re clearly not. It’s all mad, I don’t know where all it came from, it’s a huge campaign of hate against the skinny girls, just to win self-esteem without doing anything.

      They say that you can’t judge, then shout a lot of awful things to any skinny girl, as if everything was their fault.

      It’s okay if they want to feel good, it’s okay if they don’t want to lose weight, but that attitude of “We are ‘curvy’ we are better, skinny girls are awful, everyone love ‘curves’ eww, stay away skinny btch OH NO, YOU CALLED ME FAT, YOU’RE A MONSTER, I AM NOT FAT, I AM ‘CURVY'” is stupid. (And “curvy” doesn’t even mean the thing that they say now)

      • Laura Brooks says:

        Society has been telling women of average and above average weight that they are not acceptable for decades, yet history has shown that women of all sizes at one time or another have been considered beautiful. Bound feet in China, long necks in Burma, cone-shaped heads in central Africa and – in our modern culture – thinness. Beauty standards always seem to change but they consistently marginalize those that do not conform, and many times force women into unnatural and unhealthy practices to attain the current ‘beauty ideal’. Why can’t we accept all types of beauty when we know from history that it truly is in the eye of the beholder? Pitting “Thin vs Curvy” women against each other is counterproductive. I’m hoping that people will learn to be more accepting of size diversity and focus on their health, not weight.

    • KC says:

      I know exactly what you mean! There are many people who are naturally thin and get made fun of for not having a large butt. This song is supposed to make women feel better, but I feel like it is also attacking young ladies who are thin.

  • Laura Brooks says:

    Hi Tori – thanks for sharing. Just goes to show that any woman can be impacted by judgements about weight, no matter their size, and if society was more accepting of body diversity, it wouldn’t be as divisive and judgmental as it is now.

  • iyamrocky says:

    Loving the song – great beat and I can dance to it. LOL
    Loving the words and the message – if you don’t like it or can’t relate to it “just move along” – there’s millions more for you to listen to.

  • Laura Brooks says:

    A lot of people must agree with you, Rocky. When I wrote this article there were 18 million views. Now the video has over 60 million.

  • BML says:

    ummmm….anybody remember TLC’S Unpretty? That sends the right message. Doesn’t matter what is on the outside, what matters is that you look on the inside and learn to like yourself, or people will have the power to make you feel “unpretty”. These songs that promote loving the physical body and putting down bodies that are not like yours are missing the mark.

    • Laura Brooks says:

      BML – Just watched that on youtube. Really like the message of reclaiming your personal power. Thanks for your bringing up this point in your comment.

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2gy1Evb1Kg

      ”Never insecure until I met you
      Now I’m bein’ stupid
      I used to be so cute to me
      Just a little bit skinny
      Why do I look to all these things
      To keep you happy
      Maybe get rid of you and then I’ll get back to me (hey)”

  • Anon says:

    I think the fact she says “Skinny Bitches” is very rude. And mean, not to mention bullying in it’s own way. I, and many ”skinny” people I know have an illness which stops up from eating a lot, because we get ill if we eat what we can’t manage. I can only eat small portions, and if I try to eat more I’ll be very ill. She shouldn’t say all skinny people are bitches – besides, she’s not even big – she’s actually rather thin. Whilst I think it’s stupid that everyone thinks you HAVE to be skinny, for some people it’s not a choice – she should take that into consideration next time. (Sorry, English isn’t my native)

    • Laura Brooks says:

      If she had written “haters” or “bullies” instead, the song would have been less offensive and more on point really. Your comment shows how difficult it is to override physical conditions and genetics so we all need to be more accepting of our own and each other’s natural weight.

    • KC says:

      I personally am a naturally skinny person. Heck I’m a size 2! I eat as much as I want, but I can never gain any weight. I play sports and eat fairly healthy yet I find myself having trouble gaining weight. When I first listened to this song I thought it was pretty good. It had a nice beat and a kind message to young girls, but as I listened to it more I began to feel like skinny people were being some what attacked. Calling young ladies “skinny bitches” is not okay. If this song is about making teen girls feel better then why is it necessary to tear some of them down? Just because Megan is “all about that bass” that doesn’t mean that she should bash ladies who are thinner. Some people can’t help if they are skinny or if they are curvy. Now Megan if you know that people can’t help how much they weigh why are you going to bash people who don’t weight very much?

  • Sapphire says:

    In my opinion this song is very nice but what most people are not taking into consideration is the fact there are not lyrics after the “skinny b****s” part. They are focusing on those lyrics and those alone because right after that she says ” no, I’m just playing I know you think your fat” which I agree with some people that can be offensive but again I am looking at the lyrics as a whole literally the next sentences are”but in here to tell you that every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top.” So yes at times the song can be offensive. But as a whole I think she is trying to say that everyone it perfect no matter what their size may be.

  • Dave says:

    I just saw the video today, never heard of the song or artist. Being a 57 year old PhD clinical psychologist, this type of singing/video rarely comes to my attention — serendipity. All that said, my initial impression of the song was FAVORABLE. Laura, you may take a bow for your thoughtful and reasoned approach to evaluating the song, as compared with others such as Trout. My male intuition, upon first viewing the video, was that it is a self-affirmation of body type/shape/size, containing of course some humor. At first I thought no treble was “no trouble.” Many are overinterpreting this song, and are prone to the cognitive distortion of magnification. It’s just a song, people! I am impressed with thing young woman’s work.

    • Laura Brooks says:

      Thanks, Dave! No one can deny the Meghan’s incredible achievement with the success of her song. It’s now up to 300+ MILLION views on youtube. And, in her own defense to the “skinny-bashing” accusations, Meghan said in a Billboard interview people need to understand the full line is “”I’m bringing booty back. Go ‘head and tell them skinny bitches that. No, I’m just playing, I know you think you’re fat. But I’m here to tell you, every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top.” Her meaning is that she knows that even skinny girls struggle with how they feel about their bodies.

      • Dave says:

        Thanks as well for your reply, Laura. I do appreciate your response. I want to say a couple things, after which I will likely disappear until another unusual song/video comes my way.

        First, this is a song written by someone at age 19. Even if the lyrics are judged as stupid, inane, or politically incorrect, so what? The lyrics are thoughtful and witty, to me. Hail iconoclasts! Why is this song being cross-examined in detail? Those who criticize have thousands of songs to rip to shreds, if they want. Don’t get me started on which ones ……. ;)

        Second, the self-affirmation idea is the heart and soul of the song. Why do so many people not understand that? That is a major reason why it has been such a huge hit. Lots of people have been touched by its message.

        I wonder how big a role the co-writer took. This will likely never be disclosed in full detail, but, once again, so what. It’s a song, people!

        • Janice says:

          It is not self affirmation if it derides subtly or “in your face” the “other”.

          That’s like small breasted woman taunting big breasted woman as “saggy titties”.

          Self affirmation songs would be TLCs Unpretty and Christina’s Beautiful. The messages of these songs is that self affirmation comes from within NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS SAY. All about the Bass gets affirmation from “what men SUPPOSEDLY(maybe men into porn as the song even didn’t acknowledge that like women, men have diverse preferences) like”.

          She should just own the song as it being self objectifying than self empowering. Yes it is just a song. And it should stop there. She should nor her fans should call it “empowering” especially if it derides the other and the ones who do not have the “booty”.

          The biggest irony here is that he spanx can be seen in her music video…that makes the song even more hypoctritical

  • Janice says:

    Her saying that a song like that could have been released when she was 13 is really ridiculous!

    Has she even heard of Whitney Houston’s The greatest love of all? I bet that song is older than her! “NO MATTER WHAT THEY TAKE FROM ME, THEY CAN’T TAKE AWAY MY DIGNITY…BECAUSE THE GREATEST LOVE OF ALL, IS EASY TO ACHIEVE, LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF IS THE GREATEST LOVE OF ALL”

    Also, TLCs Unpretty was released about 1997 or 1998. The video even is also as powerful as the song about self acceptance. Christina Aguilera’s Beautiful (I am Beautiful no matter they say, words CANT bring me down) was also a massive hit in the early 2000s. Was she living under a rock or was she just finding an excuse to subtly put down “the other” and talk about male validation(which is even ridiculous as the song supposes that all men are attracted to the same “kind” which is even farther from reality) to up (band aid style) her self esteem ? Unless most songs she voluntarily listens to are the ones that constantly degrades women as a whole (was she listening to Eminem growing up?)

    • Laura Brooks says:

      Thanks for your comments. I love the songs you mention. I think that this song is different in that it specifically talks about body size; it’s a challenge to describe or discuss women being sexy and attractive to men without seeming shallow or sexist because it is an inherently shallow and often sexist phenomenon shaped by society.

      I’m not defending the self-objectification that you mention; I’m just pointing out the difficulty of describing the attractiveness of body size, which is a physical characteristic and not an abstract concept of self-acceptance. The whole point of the song is to validate that, on a very basic level, larger bodies can be just as attractive as thinner ones to the opposite sex.

      As much as one would like to see physical appearance carry less weight (pardon the pun) in our society, the reality is that it still is a major factor in self-esteem, social acceptance, and so on. The song “All About That Bass” has ventured into that volatile space between the present and what we believe the future should be.

      Yes, other non-physical characteristics should also be just as or even more important in attractiveness, but the majority of eyes out there still behold beauty as being thin and there can be a high cost to mental and physical health for women if they do not conform (or when they do try) to conform to that standard.

      “Bass” serves a purpose in pointing out — on a purely physical basis — that sexiness doesn’t come in one size. I think that message does need to be heard.

  • Harriet Krivit says:

    Aside from a very successful song itself, what the artist does with their fame, particularly if it’s so big and sudden as Megan’s, speaks volumes. Megan came back to Nantucket (raised and grew up here) over the holidays, sat for over 3 1/2 hours to raise much needed money for the historic Methodist Church. Waited till everyone in a long line got to meet her and get an autographed pic if they wanted.
    Saw nothing covering this except for our local newspaper.
    Re: The word “permanence”, concerning size/weight and food and eating issues, can suggest an unreachable goal. For me and many other’s, the physiological/psychological/emotional and unique pleasurable state of eating food may often be an ongoing managing process (a great success in itself), like many chronic undesired conditions or afflictions.

  • Emily says:

    I never cared much for this song. I don’t like the background music, and I agree that the message could be said better. However, the thing that first made me roll my eyes about it is the fact that I can’t relate to the song anyway because Meghan is not at all what I would consider a bigger woman or overweight (so following that thought, women around her size are the kind of “big” girls guys like, that’s true, not people my size. If I were the kind of person to care much about songs, it would make me feel bad about myself instead of positive). I think that just may be a pet peeve of mine, and it’s good that some other people get a positive message out of it. Still, there was no need to put any other body types down in her song. A better balance of all body types in all forms of media would be appreciated instead of keeping them in their separate categories.

  • Trevor says:

    I won’t lie, I’m male (hides behind desk) (looks out from behind desk). Um.. well.. about the song itself the rhythm is catchy. And yes there is a message about loving yourself for yourself no matter what body type you are (There are categories of body types that have been scientifically defined by doctors and scientists http://thescienceofeating.com/food-combining-how-it-works/workouts-for-all-areas/the-3-body-types-explained/).
    Though, I do think that the song gets away with something that past songs may have. For one thing, if a woman with a skinny body would sing about how men like a thin woman you can bet there would be critical back lash from those woman with a larger body type. But reverse it and it is considered alright because a; the skinny women already have an idea of what they believe that males like, b; the skinny body type has been overemphasized in our culture.
    In some ways, this could be deemed unacceptable because now the same repression and negativity that has been seen towards larger body type women will now be placed upon those women with a skinnier body type by women/men (if the change in stereotype changes). Furthermore by using the term “skinny-bitch” it is possible that as a culture humans will begin to believe that if you’re skinny, you’re a bitch. Much like how there is a stereotype that if a woman has a larger body type, she consumes large amounts of food.
    Of course, then one can go into how largeness and size-ness are not just based on fat. There are women who lift weights and enjoy having muscle, defined by some as “Muscle-women”. Reasons for why the women do this? They have an interest in it. Of course some men would define these muscle women as being unattractive, but some men also think that is attractive. Though I’m sure that people reading this will confuse the attraction to some sick fetish, but how do you think that makes the women who work to gain that muscle feel?
    Just like how the human body comes in all shapes and sizes, attraction to body types is different for every individual person. Some males, myself included, find women who are taller than them attractive.
    Now before you start saying that it’s typical for a male to only be attractive to a woman’s looks, I think it’s only fair to state that women also have their own physical preferences for members of the opposite sex.
    For instance, as a man, I have been bombarded with what is considered male masculinity by magazine covers of in-shape male celebrities with six pack abs, standing 6-7 feet tall, tan skin, large biceps, and square pecks. And then there’s always the stereotype amongst men that males need to have a large penis (yes, I said it) otherwise women will find the male inferior.
    As for myself, I’m 23, I stand 5’10”, weight 150-160lbs, 32 inch waist, with reddish brown hair, glasses, pale skin that burns after two hours without sunscreen, freckles on my face and arms, with an average body when it comes to muscle ratio, and for some reason I can never get tan. I also have a case of unilateral gynecomastia, and no it’s not psuedogynecomastia, so unless I have a surgery done, I will have an enlarged breast on one side of my body. As you can imagine most men call this un-masculine and say that it would scare women away. As for my lower extremities, let’s just say it’s doesn’t fit what most humans are looking for on Craigslist’s Casual Encounters section.
    Should I try to change my body? As stated before, I have had an evaluation of my gynecomastia, I’ve also looked into ways to make my lower extremities larger, from pumps to a technique called jelquing.
    Should I change my body to the stereotypes that men believe women find attractive? Am I lazy, unfit, and poor, because I don’t have massive muscles, hesitant to get a surgery to make my chest normal, and wear glasses instead of contacts? As a male, I’m just as nervous as looking attractive to a woman as a woman is about looking attractive to a man. Should I sing a song about how women like smaller men, about how the bigger guys are “muscle-fucks”? Will I be deemed a savior of the male demographic? Probably not, because what I’ve found is that unless one really wants to change their body type, they won’t do it.
    So if Meghan Trainor loves herself for her body type and wants to keep it, that’s up to her. Just like it’s my decision if I want to gain muscles that rival Arnold Schwarzenegger.
    What I find really unnerving about the song is how it’s being used by “New feminists”. And I don’t mean feminists as women who are standing up for equal rights and civil liberties, as everyone should be. When I say “new feminists” I’m referring to those females who like to turn everything into an issue of misogyny without considering the opinion of the woman who was involved. For instance, there was a large flame war over the comments made by Big Bang Theory star Kaley Cuoco. One of which was about how she enjoyed cooking for her husband. These “new feminists” accused Kaley Cuoco of not being a feminist because she was, according to them, filling a misogynistic role. The “new feminists” did not take the time to consider that Kaley Cuoco herself made the choice herself to cook for her husband and family. I don’t have a degree in woman’s study, and my knowledge of feminism is small, but isn’t feminism about giving humans of the female gender equal opportunity, education, rights, and civil liberties as those of the male gender? So in other words, it’s about allowing a woman to make her own decisions and pursue her dreams and stop those who believe that the female gender makes them inferior.
    But what these “new feminists” seem to be doing is not analyzing the situation or the woman’s opinion but instead go ahead and label them as un-feminist if the woman makes a decision that they find is filling a role they deem to be one that males have created. That’s not feminism, but a dictatorship.
    I’m not trying to justify the horrible things that males have done, but there are women who make the decision to go to college, there are women who make the decision to become heads of corporations, there are woman who make the decision to become athletes. Similarly, there are woman who make the decision to become home-makers, there are woman who make decision to become teachers, there are woman who make the decision to become nurses. The lower pay they receive in these jobs is a worthy argument of feminism because they do just as much as a male nurse does. That’s misogynistic. If anything to make the system totally fair a new act to the system could be forms that state whether or not the employee is the head of the household, as this is stereotypically associated with the male.
    Now I’m not trying to justify males actions and behavior when it comes to women. There are a lot of bastards out there who like to judge a woman by her looks, appearance, and clothes that she wears. And their actions are never justified based on those assumptions.
    If a woman chooses to wear a revealing outfit, it does not mean she’s looking for a sexual encounter. Yes, it could mean that she is trying to appear desirable because, let’s face it, we all want to look desirable. Men want to look desirable, so they wear suits on dates. According to one article I read about dating tips, yes I read an article about planning a date, a body language scientist said that to show the woman you are interested in her, the male should tug on his socks throughout the date.
    I guess this is just my long winded way of saying that “it’s not all about that bass” It’s about being healthy and choosing what you as a woman want. Just like how a woman has a preference in the men she desires, a man also has a preference in the woman he desires. Both physically, emotionally, and mentally.
    Please don’t have this pompous attitude, like Meghan Trainor or Nicky Minaj, who said “fuck those skinny-bitches in the club”, that you’re better than everyone else because you’re “all-natural”. Love yourself for who you are, but don’t put other people down in order to love yourself and your body.
    The message should be, don’t be skinny, don’t be “all about the bass”, just be healthy and if you want to change your body type do it smartly, and don’t hurt yourself in the process. Make your own decisions. Just don’t break any laws, basic moral rights, and be aware of the consequences of your actions.
    Thank you.
    P.S
    Please feel free to critique what I wrote.

    • Laura Brooks says:

      Hi Trevor, thanks for your comment; you bring an interesting perspective to the discussion. I think that your message of striving for health and loving yourself for who you are first is exactly what the critics of the song would like to see more of. As for male and female roles, I think that (like in most subjects) there is a continuum or bell curve in attitudes and behaviors where some men and women are rigid in their view of the opposite sex – or the same sex for that matter. It is this rigidity that causes divisiveness and conflict. If people can learn how to be more accepting of diversity in body size and in male or female roles, we’d all be able to live more fully and freely. Unfortunately, the drive to conform or enforce conformity seems to be a basic ‘default’ and it takes education and raising our collective consciousness to change. The human race is a work in progress and while inroads have been made, there’s still a lot more to be done before both men and women can feel comfortable in their own skins and how they choose to live their lives.

  • Diane says:

    She’s a young girl who’s 30 pounds overweight. Why do we have to believe that’s okay or even something to glorify?

  • Laura Brooks says:

    Much research has shown that being overweight is not necessarily unhealthy, and it is not a crime to be overweight nor does it make someone automatically unattractive.

    I encourage you to read more about the Health at Every Size movement and learn some surprising facts about weight (source: http://haesbook.com/) : “a) on average, people who are overweight outlive normal weight people b) no studies have shown that weight loss prolongs life c) biology dictates that most people regain the weight they lose, even if they continue on their diet and exercise programs.”

    Also take a look at a fascinating experiment which showed how hard it was for THIN people to get fat. Some subjects ate 10,000 calories a day to gain weight and, when the study was over, the subjects had no difficulty returning to and maintaining their original weight. Researchers concluded that weight is “more strongly inherited than nearly any other condition, including mental illness, breast cancer or heart disease.” http://www.nytimes.com/2007/05/08/health/08fat.html

    It is this notion that extra weight is unhealthy and completely under a person’s complete control that fuels weight stigma and this ‘obesity epidemic’ fear.

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