I’m just not doing it anymore. How? I realized that most of the chaos came from me – or rather my attitudes, opinions and reactions. What if having people over were just that – a visit – not a call to cook, clean, shop and spend money? What if going on a trip meant grabbing one pair of jeans, two shirts, one pair a shoes and underwear, not packing like Hannibal crossing the Alps with 88 elephants and 100,000 soldiers.
If it ain’t simple – it’s out.
If you visit me, you might see some dust around – consider it my crown of chaos-free living.